Im so excited for this episode! And she looks amazing! I love her outfit! She should wear more crop tops and midi skirts.. :)

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Anonymous asked:

Does Shailene choose her clothes for appearances such as SDCC? She looked like a boy in her outfit at SDCC. Shailene is so lovely, she would look good in a sack, however, she was largely ignored by one of the female interviewers there while the woman shamelessly flirted with Theo. I wondered if her outfit contributed to how she was treated, and also if her outfit choice had anything to do with Ruth's presence. Your thoughts?

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its-a-sheo-thing:

fuckyeahdamose:

its-a-sheo-thing:

Before I answer this, I want all of my followers to please think before you post. If Shailene were to come and read your text posts and captions, would you still write them?

That being said, my thoughts on the subject are that a person’s value and the level of respect they receive should have absolutely nothing to do with how they dress. I have no idea whether or not she chose the outfit herself, and if she did, what her motives were, but it really shouldn’t matter AT ALL. 

That flirty interviewer was being unprofessional by flirting with her interviewee, Shai’s clothing had absolutely nothing to do with it.

I don’t really know how to conclude this answer, other than reiterating that this is none of our business…

That’s about all I have to say on the subject.

Thank you for stopping by my blog!

(I meant to answer this awhile ago, but at first I couldn’t think about how to word my opinion, and then I was out of town, so here is my answer FINALLY.)

I don’t mean to be rude to this anon (or anyone else), but how is Shailene supposed to attend a convention - with a ball gown ? And is this some kind of a double standard - I can give you an example - my husband Ian Somerhalder wore his favorite ISF shirt and a pair of jeans, Theo James wore basically the same shirt and jeans he wore last year , and nobody has a problem with that. I even find it cute, that Sheo dressed almost the same as last year (in black and white and all)  - doesn’t matter - on purpose or not - I was reminiscing. And even though Shai herself said that she just now  is getting into fashion and it’s not her priority, I think she’s making some great choices (HELLO, Divergent premieres?!?) and some serious fashion statements. Plus, she’s been on so many magazine covers lately (again, hello - Marie Claire , Teen Vogue?!). But it’s not true, that she’s starting to get fashion just now (since Divergent and TFIOS), she dressed pretty incredible during 2011’s  Award Season, I think she was really passionate about it back then - it was her big break with “The Descendants” and she looked fierce. But she’s always said that in her spare time she likes to feel comfortable (don’t we all?) - wear sweaters, leggins and her toe shoes - and she’s stayed true to herself. And Comic Con is not the place to make a fashion statement - it’s a place where fans meet their favorites and they spent time with them, take pictures and give autographs. And Shai and Theo did all that.

Greetings.

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Thank you for this addition, fuckyeahdamose! I agree with you wholeheartedly! :)

Hi there!

Just wanted to chime in regarding Shai’s stylist — Shai has one and her name is Iliaria Urbinati. She is also the stylist to Theo James, Bradley Cooper, Chris Evans and Nina Dobrev. You can find her on Twitter where she usually posts photos of outfits she puts her clients in. In terms of Shai’s outfit at SDCC, I thought she looked great! Fashion is expression in my opinion. I love clothes myself and I know that when I wear something, not everyone will like it. That’s just the way it is. That’s why confidence and fashion go hand in hand. If you love what you’re wearing, you really won’t care what other people will think of it. That said, I thought Shai carried her outfit at SDCC so well. She looked confident and comfortable (comfort even more important at SDCC)!

“Go into the arts. I’m not kidding. The arts are not a way to make a living. They are a very human way of making life more bearable. Practicing an art, no matter how well or badly, is a way to make your soul grow , for heaven’s sake. Sing in the shower. Dance to the radio. Tell stories. Write a poem to a friend, even a lousy poem. Do it as well as you possibly can. You will get an enormous reward. You will have created something.”
— Kurt Vonnegut (via munkstrap)

(via diamondtides)

Q

b-dauntless asked:

My message from last night. Fun fact: when a man is emotionally interested in courting a girl he will hold eye contact with said girl longer than normal or will constantly be staring at her until she notices his eyes. Hm... who do you think of first?

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obsessed-with-josh-and-theo:

sheogasm:

obsessed-with-josh-and-theo:

sheogasm:

hello B! that is an interesting fact… and yes i thought about sheo right after i saw the word “eye contact” because they stare at each other like CRAZY. I don’t know about you but i see something whenever they stare at each other. 

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 BUT I MEAN JUST LOOK AT THAT^^

can i just add on a few more examples??

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yeah…my heart has exploded from the overload of feels…

i’m adding more sheo stares! :)

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bless your soul

jen7waters:

Shai: I just had a really great egg that morning.
Theo: An incredible egg. jen7waters:

Shai: I just had a really great egg that morning.
Theo: An incredible egg. jen7waters:

Shai: I just had a really great egg that morning.
Theo: An incredible egg. jen7waters:

Shai: I just had a really great egg that morning.
Theo: An incredible egg. jen7waters:

Shai: I just had a really great egg that morning.
Theo: An incredible egg. jen7waters:

Shai: I just had a really great egg that morning.
Theo: An incredible egg.

jen7waters:

Shai: I just had a really great egg that morning.

Theo: An incredible egg.

(via obsessed-with-josh-and-theo)

sheoshire:

i feel complete with theos hand on shais back and shais hand on top of theos thigh 😭😩💕

(via virgin-faction)

still—getting—there:

✿♡rosy/summer blog,i follow back♡✿

still—getting—there:

✿♡rosy/summer blog,i follow back♡✿

Found another take on the Fifty Shades trailer — Divergent style

sheonews:

Have you watched the trailer for 50 shades of gray? Well then, did a Divergent style. It was AMAZING, and Shailene Theo … OMG YOU NEED TO SEE